How To Act and Think So That Women Will Chase YOU

How To Act and Think So That Women Will Chase YOU:

It is not enough to conquer, one must learn to seduce.
-Voltaire

I love this quote from the 18th century French author and famous seducer Voltaire, because it holds a lot of wisdom about why most men are successful with women and only a select few are VERY successful.

You see, many men are trying to CONQUER women - attempting to force women to like them by spending money on them or giving them unoriginal gifts. These men do all the same things and they end up boring women because they don't know how to SEDUCE them. Why?

The good news is that seduction is something you can LEARN, just as Voltaire implies in his famous quote.

Think about it, men have been seducing women for thousands of years, so if you can even learn just some of the attitudes and techniques that they have used, then you too can be wildly successful with women!

Here are just two of the many attitudes and understandings that you must have to be more successful with women:

“There is an abundance of women in the world.”

Most guys, maybe yourself included, tend to only focus their attention on one woman who they simply can’t get their mind off of. Usually it’s a woman who is not really interested in them in return.

While it is good to have a focus, the problem is that they act like she is the only woman in the world, and she picks up on this both consciously and unconsciously. It comes across as needy, and puts her in the position of power to choose you, not the other way around.

It's like economics applied to dating. If you think the supply of women is small, you will do stupid things like pay too much just to date them. She will understand she can chose you anytime, and she feels there is no challenge, so she will keep her options open because she knows she can have you anytime she wants and there is no need to hurry.

If instead you realize there really are billions of women in the world, and understand that you can always meet other women at any time, then you will have a more relaxed and powerful attitude that women will pick up on instantly.

“You are the selector when dealing with women.”

Following this logic, you want to reverse the above supply and demand perception so that women understand you are a unique man who chooses women, not the other way around.
Have you ever heard that phrase, “God’s gift to women?” If you are like me, you were taught by society and friends (women in particular) to avoid ever thinking like this about yourself. But the secret fact is, this is exactly how you must think in order to be outrageously successful with women.

People want what they can’t have, what they perceive has VALUE. If you will just understand how to appear as the more valuable catch in your interactions with women, and how to behave like the SELECTOR, you will have that value for women. You will double, triple, or even QUADRUPLE your success with women instantly!

In the video clip above, the man has both of these attitudes internalized and shows them in his actions with women. And as someone who used to have absolutely no success with women, but now practices such attitudes in real life, I can tell you without a doubt, they will work for you, too!

~ Ray Devans, Co-Producer of “The Art of the Pickup”

How tips from "The Art of the Pickup" helped a man in his early 30s take control of his dating life:
Being in a huge metropolitan city, I'm surrounded daily by all kinds of gorgeous women and for the longest time I never seemed to be able to keep the interest of more than a few, even being a smart successful man - and I didn't know why. Now I know. I now have the knowledge that's changed my life around. I've been dating TWO (yes two!) great women and regularly meeting new women all the time. Thank you
Dan. W., New York