3. How You Can Maximize Your Opportunities For Meeting And Dating The Kind Of Women You Desire:
Once you have learned the right attitudes and understandings like those mentioned above, you are ready to go out and meet women. But to really be successful, you also need the right techniques and game plan.
“You need to meet women EVERYWHERE”
In order to maximize your opportunities for meeting and dating the kind of women you desire, you have to be ready to meet them everywhere you go. Think about it, in your everyday life the kind of women you desire are not only found in bars and clubs, but are often in the places you least expect to find them.
The problem is that most guys think it is only acceptable to meet women at bars and clubs or through mutual friends. And even if they think its OK, they don’t know what to do.
But with the right game plan and the right techniques, you can easily and effectively meet women while walking down the street or buying books, or anywhere else.
And how do I do that you are asking?
“Have a general game plan for meeting women anywhere.”
Here is a quick structure you can use for meeting a woman anywhere:
Approach her confidently.
Make a humorous comment about something that is relevant to the situation.
Talk to her as if she is already somebody you know.
After a few minutes, mention that you are busy and tell her it has been nice talking to her.
Walk away as if you are leaving, but turn around and mention that it would be nice to continue the conversation again.
Use the technique discussed earlier to get her phone number.
In each of the summary scenes in the video clips above, the man has met the woman using some or all of the components of this basic game plan.
OK, once you have a universal game plan for meeting women, you need techniques for effectively following up with women and actually getting them to meet you again.
“Use these two powerful technique from sales to dramatically increase the chances she will meet you again.”
It’s happened to us all before. You have called her and the conversation is going well. You gather your courage and ask her if she wants to meet you on Saturday and she says “That is really sweet, but I can’t.”
The problem here is that you asked her a “yes or no” question, and she chose “no” because it is easy and she thinks she can always say yes later if she wants. But once she has chosen not to meet you, it’s like a circuit switches on in her brain that makes it easy to keep saying no to you because she already has.
Salesmen know this, and so they never ask you a “yes or no” question. Instead they use these two time tested techniques:
Technique 1 - Assume the sale!
I know this principle and still it was used on me recently to get me to buy a subscription to an investment newspaper. The sales guy called up and launched into the description of his product, asked me some open ended questions about my investment interests and needs. After I answered them, he enthusiastically said “Great, it sounds like this newspaper meets all those needs!”
He simply assumed I wanted to buy his newspaper. I didn’t have a chance to tell him I didn’t want to buy because he hadn’t asked me a “yes or no” question about buying.
With a woman you are talking to her on the phone, you can do the same thing when setting up a meeting. Once you know a little about what she likes, you simply start describing how fun a certain activity is. When she agrees, you talk about how nice it will be to do that activity together. When she agrees to that too, you simply assume that means she wants to do it with you. Then follow up with:
Technique 2 - Close the deal by offering choices that all lead to the sale!
“So would you like to use Visa, Master Card, or Discover?”
When the salesman said these words to me the first thing that popped into my mind was a picture of the credit cards in my wallet, and which would be better to use. It happened automatically, even though I knew the technique he was using. I wound up buying the subscription and I am really glad I did because what I learned from it helped me to make more money in the stock market!
So let’s apply this technique to setting up the meeting with the woman you have called in the example above. You have just described the thing you want to do with her and have assumed the sale. Now just say:
“Great! So would you like to meet on Saturday on Sunday?”
Both choices lead to meeting you, and the unstated fact underlying the statement is that she has already agreed to meet you, now it is just a question of determining when. You will be amazed how often this works!
Go ahead, start using these and other “Art of the Pickup” techniques and watch your friend’s jaws will drop in amazement when they see how many hot, sexy women you are dating!
~ Ray Devans, Co-Producer of “The Art of the Pickup”
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